As Valentine's day approaches, many people are looking to connect with others online. While online dating can be a great way to meet new people, it is also important to be aware of the potential dangers. Romance scams, where fraudsters use fake profiles to financially and emotionally exploit victims are becoming more common. These scammers manipulate their victims into sending money under false pretenses. They often succeed by building trusting relationships over long periods of time.

 

Warning signs of Romance Scams

Scammers typically gain trust by showering their target with attention and compliments before eventually asking them for money. They may claim it’s for travel expenses, medical emergencies (typically of a child), or a business opportunity that would help to bring the relationship closer. Common red flags can include rushing the relationship, avoiding personal questions and refusing to meet in person. They may also try to move conversation off dating platforms to a less secure platform to avoid being detected as a scam. If someone you have met online asks for financial help, it’s a major warning sign.

 

How to protect yourself

• Use trusted dating websites with strong security measures

• Keep personal details private and be cautious when sharing information

• Never send money or provide financial assistance to someone that you haven’t met in person.

• Be careful with your webcams, as scammers often try to exploit video recordings as ransom.

• Trust your instincts - if something feels off, it probably is.

 

At CyberSkills, We’re committed to helping people stay safe online. This Valentine’s Day, protect both your heart and your security and stay safe!

 

An Garda Síochána. (2025). Beware of Romance Scams. Retrieved from https://www.garda.ie/en/crime/fraud/am-i-a-victim-of-a-romance-scam-.html